Goal Setting
October 16, 2007
Sounds simple doesnt it – goal setting…
I think the main thing I have learnt is that the goals I have tried to set in my life so far have often revolved around what I SHOULD do or what I have felt I NEED/ed to do.. as opposed to what I WANT/ed to do. I have been thinking alot about what I value most. Value driven goals are easier to achieve as they are aligned to what we really want in our lives & what truly will make us happy.
I value ‘love’ or ‘loving relationships’! I have always valued relationships and people close to me more than anything in the world. If I feel supported and appreciated then I smile and feel fulfilled. So this continues to be my goal. When I am unhappy its because I dont feel as though I have this in my life. It has made me realise that if I set goals to achieve this, it will enrich my life….I must keep this in the forefront of my mind.. so I am going to give myself reminders by writing it down so i can see this goal in strategic places. I am going to steer clear of goal hikackers – i.e. not allow myself in relationships that clearly prevent me from feeling loved (cull a few draining friends or people that dont deserve my energy)…
I have identified a few blocks/obstacles that stand in the way…. Now that I have recognised them, I am more aware of the hinderance they are at reaching success. I have rallied a few trusted supportive people (my mum & sister & a few close friends) to keep me on track.
My request – please send some positive energies and vibrations my way. The more thoughts towards my manifestation of having & feeling the love – the better! So greatly appreciated.