Goal Setting
October 16, 2007
Sounds simple doesnt it – goal setting…
I think the main thing I have learnt is that the goals I have tried to set in my life so far have often revolved around what I SHOULD do or what I have felt I NEED/ed to do.. as opposed to what I WANT/ed to do. I have been thinking alot about what I value most. Value driven goals are easier to achieve as they are aligned to what we really want in our lives & what truly will make us happy.
I value ‘love’ or ‘loving relationships’! I have always valued relationships and people close to me more than anything in the world. If I feel supported and appreciated then I smile and feel fulfilled. So this continues to be my goal. When I am unhappy its because I dont feel as though I have this in my life. It has made me realise that if I set goals to achieve this, it will enrich my life….I must keep this in the forefront of my mind.. so I am going to give myself reminders by writing it down so i can see this goal in strategic places. I am going to steer clear of goal hikackers – i.e. not allow myself in relationships that clearly prevent me from feeling loved (cull a few draining friends or people that dont deserve my energy)…
I have identified a few blocks/obstacles that stand in the way…. Now that I have recognised them, I am more aware of the hinderance they are at reaching success. I have rallied a few trusted supportive people (my mum & sister & a few close friends) to keep me on track.
My request – please send some positive energies and vibrations my way. The more thoughts towards my manifestation of having & feeling the love – the better! So greatly appreciated.
You are not alone. I am at my best when people give me love and time. It’s a beautiful thing.If that is not there i am at my worst, i throw myself into deep inner thoughts, look at where i am going wrong and how i am communicating with others. I mean what i am asking can’t be that hard….love and understanding.
I am relying on others too much for my happiness i know!
I agree with your goal setting and positive affirmations, as the saying goes smile and the world smiles with you, in other words what you give out will come back.
But beware not to fall in that trap of relying on others to make you strive and be happy and feel loved, you must firstly love yourself and believe in yourself most of all.
I need to have a hard look at my reality check! Thankyou for your honesty, its lovely to read your blogs each time.